Why doesnt my hair hold a curl?

By Stevee Danielle Hair and makeup


ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTION: WHY DOESN’T MY HAIR HOLD CURL?

Have you ever looked at your hair stylist and said “my hair doesn’t hold curl”, “my hair is already curly and is too frizzy to curl” or “I always straighten my naturally curly hair before I curl it”? Let me put your mind at ease and tell you that celebrities are not the only ones with perfectly curlable hair! Everyone can have their hair texture completely changed for and look amazing and different than your everyday look for your wedding day. AND, its easy!


Science behind heating your hair:

First, lets get to understanding the science behind any methods of styling with heat. Hair is made up of a protein known as keratin. Keratin is made up of sulfur-containing amino acids. sulfur atoms, from chains of keratin, bond together to form what are called disulphide bonds or S-S bonds. These disulphide bonds are what keeps the keratin molecules in a fixed position creating the shape of the hair fiber.


What we do when we want to change the shape of the hair fiber? The easiest most common methods are straightening, curling, or wanding our hair using heated irons. 300 to 500 degrees fahrenheit will break down these disulphide bonds. Whatever shape you use to break down these disulphide bonds is the shape they will start to form. When an heated iron is removed from the hair, the hair will cool. Once the hair is fully cooled down, that is the shape the disulphide bonds will stay. Only moisture or water will return the disulphide bond to its original state.


Common mistakes made that make it seem like your hair is just impossible!

  1. Curling your hair from the ends to the base:

It just seems natural that the way to use a curling iron is to catch as much of the ends as possible without them slipping and roll the iron up all the way to the scalp.

Problem with this method:

unless you have very short hair, this method will give you lifeless frizzy hair at the base and midshaft of the hair and a very tight curl on the ends of the hair. Why? Well now that we understand why the heat is the key to smooth shiny hair no matter what shape we want, it is easy to understand that there is not enough heat getting to the midshaft and base of the hair. When you wrap hair around the iron and roll up to the scalp, you are essentially wrapping hair around hair, not heat. The hair at the midshaft and base will not get hot enough if it is touching hair from the ends and not touching the curved plates of the iron. Holding the iron in your hair longer hoping that the midshaft and ends will eventually get hot enough may work better, but will damage your ends and still wont create the desired look. Your wedding hairstyle will end up falling down within the hour.



  1. Straightening your naturally curly hair before curling it.

This seems like the obvious thing to do when you have tried to create a smoother larger curl in your hair like the method above, and all you ever get is still a frizzy mess.

Problem with this method:

Once the disulphide bonds have been heated (broken) and cooled (only returnable by moisture) into a straight shape, it will be very difficult, not to mention damaging, to get the disulphide bonds to break and reshape again. Yes, it is possible and people do it all the time, but the curl shape desired after straightening will never stay as long as it not being straightened first and it is a waste of time. Again, once the disulphide bond has cooled, it will want to return to the original shape it cooled in until it has been returned to its natural state by the application of water.


So how do we do it right?

Think about when you have used a flat iron. You squeeze hair at the base (next to the scalp) in between 2 plates and slide down the hair. This works because you are applying heat evenly throughout the entire section of hair as you slide the iron down to the ends. This is called a base to ends method of heat styling. You hair looks smooth and straight, yay! Sooooooo, how do we get our brides hair to be smooth and curled instead? Using the same base to ends method. Put your hair into the curling iron just below the base of your hair and roll up to where you are almost at the scalp, press the thumb release just gently enough to be able to slide the iron down the hair enough to roll it one or two more times to get it back up to the scalp. This will keep the hair sliding on the curved plates. Continue sliding the hair through and rolling back up to the scalp until you have slid the ends into the iron and almost immediately release. This method with enable you to smooth and curl your hair at the same time without causing extreme damage to your hair, wasting your time or leaving you with frizz.


Do you have stubbornly straight or very thin hair?

Remember what we said about how the shape the disulphide bond cools in is what it will stay in? Use little clips to clip your curl up directly after your iron leaves the hair and while it cools down. Cooling in the curled shape instead of a long heavy spiral will make your curls last longer. Use a weightless hairspray sparingly before you take down your clips.


Follow these tips and you can feel safe that your wedding hairstyle will last all evening. If you have any questions on this technique feel free to email us and we will be happy to help.


30 Wedding hairstyles and what you need to achieve them

When It comes to choosing a wedding hairstyle, there are so many things to factor in. This can make it one of the most stressful parts! "Do I have enough hair?", "Do I have the right texture?", "Can my hairstylist do this?". This is one of the reasons why having a photo, or a few photos, of what type of hairstyles you like, can make this part of your wedding fun and relaxing. There are many below that are either from pinterest or blogs that we see all the time and are beautiful popular styles. The others are hairstyles of our own that have made clients extremely happy. I have listed the hair textures and lengths needed to achieve these looks Just because we see a hairstyle over and over doesn't mean that we make it look exactly the same as everyone else's. Everyone has a unique style and unique hair. That gives your stylist the opportunity to create your perfect updo. If you show a few different photos to your stylist, they can also combine your favorite things about them and leave out anything you don't like about them. Keep in mind that if you do not naturally have the hair for the do you like, you can always add extensions to complete your bridal hair and makeup look.

A smooth classy updo is perfect for dressing up with some flowers. The textured contrast of the flowers looks very elegant with the smoother texture of the hair.Hair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed: Medium to longRecommendations: G…

A smooth classy updo is perfect for dressing up with some flowers. The textured contrast of the flowers looks very elegant with the smoother texture of the hair.

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed: Medium to long

Recommendations: Get highlights or a second color in your hair to really show the smooth texture of the updo.

 
This style is very low maintenance and romantic. It is great for a rehearsal dinner if you don't think it will be formal enough for the wedding day.Hair texture needed: ThickHair length needed: Medium to LongRecommendations: Clip-ins are great to ha…

This style is very low maintenance and romantic. It is great for a rehearsal dinner if you don't think it will be formal enough for the wedding day.

Hair texture needed: Thick

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

Recommendations: Clip-ins are great to have for this style. She does have extensions in.

This style is an extremely textured all down do. You would need semi short layering in your haircut to achieve that textured look in the crown and mohawk area of the headHair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed:  Medium to LongRec…

This style is an extremely textured all down do. You would need semi short layering in your haircut to achieve that textured look in the crown and mohawk area of the head

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed:  Medium to Long

Recommendations: Ask your hairstylist if cutting shorter layers to achieve this look will work with your current haircut

 
Vintage looks are especially popular for weddings because they are classic and never go out of style. You can get very creative with the hair and makeup and you wont look back on your wedding photos wondering "what was I thinking?!".Hair texture nee…

Vintage looks are especially popular for weddings because they are classic and never go out of style. You can get very creative with the hair and makeup and you wont look back on your wedding photos wondering "what was I thinking?!".

Hair texture needed: Thin to Medium

Hair length needed: Medium

Recommendations: If you have short layers, grow them out a little while so that you dont have fly aways sticking out in the middle of your roll.

 
This is a great way to have a classic vintage style even if you have short hair!Hair texture needed: Thin to MediumHair length needed: ShortRecommendations: Part of the vintage look is to have a far side part to create that wave above the forehead.&…

This is a great way to have a classic vintage style even if you have short hair!

Hair texture needed: Thin to Medium

Hair length needed: Short

Recommendations: Part of the vintage look is to have a far side part to create that wave above the forehead. 

 
This is an amazing textured cascading style. The bottom would be difficult to keep into that one curl throughout the night, but would last for walking down the isle and photos.Hair texture needed: ThickHair length needed: LongRecommendations: Would …

This is an amazing textured cascading style. The bottom would be difficult to keep into that one curl throughout the night, but would last for walking down the isle and photos.

Hair texture needed: Thick

Hair length needed: Long

Recommendations: Would add extensions to almost anyones hair to have this full of a look.

 
A low loose looking side bun is extremely popular and very customizable. You can have it smooth and classic or more textured and intricate like this photoHair texture needed: Thin to MediumHair length needed: Medium short to mediumRecommendations: L…

A low loose looking side bun is extremely popular and very customizable. You can have it smooth and classic or more textured and intricate like this photo

Hair texture needed: Thin to Medium

Hair length needed: Medium short to medium

Recommendations: Lighter hair shows texture better so if you have dark hair, get some highlights or peek-a-boos put in to show depth.

I love bridal hair and makeup before and afters. Always a good way to see what you are getting when you hire someone.

 
This is one of the most seen photos at my salon. The volume and messy texture take away the fear of having a slicked back tight updo.Hair texture needed:  Medium to thickHair length needed: Medium to longRecommendations: If you dont like a midd…

This is one of the most seen photos at my salon. The volume and messy texture take away the fear of having a slicked back tight updo.

Hair texture needed:  Medium to thick

Hair length needed: Medium to long

Recommendations: If you dont like a middle part or dont have those short pieces of hair in the face framing area, ask your wedding stylist to give you this style with a loose side part

 

 
Pinned curls are a great way to create unique texture with a wedding hairstyle.  The hair flowing to one side gives a bride a way to have her hair more formal but not all the way up if she is not comfortable with an updo.Hair texture needed: &n…

Pinned curls are a great way to create unique texture with a wedding hairstyle.  The hair flowing to one side gives a bride a way to have her hair more formal but not all the way up if she is not comfortable with an updo.

Hair texture needed:  Medium to thick

Hair length needed: Medium to long

 
(Another great wedding hair and makeup before and after) This unique style has texture all the way around the hair line and is a great updo to add flowers or accessories to.Hair texture needed:  All typesHair length needed: All typesRecommendat…

(Another great wedding hair and makeup before and after) This unique style has texture all the way around the hair line and is a great updo to add flowers or accessories to.

Hair texture needed:  All types

Hair length needed: All types

Recommendations: It is best to have bangs for this style so that the hair at the forehead doesn't get in the way of seeing the texture of the updo from the front. This is an easy style to do with short hair

This style is very loose and elegant. You will need long enough layers to hang loos in the front and reach the side bun toward the back.Hair texture needed:  Medium Hair length needed: MediumRecommendations: She has a very far side part to…

This style is very loose and elegant. You will need long enough layers to hang loos in the front and reach the side bun toward the back.

Hair texture needed:  Medium 

Hair length needed: Medium

Recommendations: She has a very far side part to give the volume on top and the nice curve above the forehead. The look wont be the same if you are not comfortable with having a part that far over.

Having Highlights or Peek-a-boos in dark hair can help show more depth and texture in hairstyles.Hair texture needed:  Medium to thickHair length needed: Medium to longRecommendations: Blonde hairstyles are easy to see the texture in, but …

Having Highlights or Peek-a-boos in dark hair can help show more depth and texture in hairstyles.

Hair texture needed:  Medium to thick

Hair length needed: Medium to long

Recommendations: Blonde hairstyles are easy to see the texture in, but if you have dark hair, highlights or hair accessories will really help add a little something to the style.

 
This style is great to have texture and volume without any hair in your face or worrying about wind blowing your hair in your face.Hair texture needed:  Medium to thickHair length needed: Medium to longRecommendations: Having face framing or lo…

This style is great to have texture and volume without any hair in your face or worrying about wind blowing your hair in your face.

Hair texture needed:  Medium to thick

Hair length needed: Medium to long

Recommendations: Having face framing or long bangs will help to get curl texture at the front of the updo instead of it lust looking like a smooth awkward bump from the front.

 
This is a great way to add some formality to a length of hair that you don't want to put in an updo. This way you don't have to where it in the normal straighter way that you do every day.Hair texture needed: Any textureHair length needed: ShortReco…

This is a great way to add some formality to a length of hair that you don't want to put in an updo. This way you don't have to where it in the normal straighter way that you do every day.

Hair texture needed: Any texture

Hair length needed: Short

Recommendations: If you like a side band or hair covering your forehead, ask your stylist to move the braid back  a little in the hairstyle to leave hair down on your forehead.

 
Having a lot of curl texture from the crown to the nape gives a modern and unique opportunity to put the veil underneath the updo. This way you don't have to hide your beautiful updo under the veilHair texture needed: ThickHair length needed: Medium…

Having a lot of curl texture from the crown to the nape gives a modern and unique opportunity to put the veil underneath the updo. This way you don't have to hide your beautiful updo under the veil

Hair texture needed: Thick

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

Recommendations: Clip-in extensions would be recommending to achieve this full look if you don't have very thick hair.

 
This short style is a great way to break up the normal bob haircut look. This wavy curl is a great way to add body and fullness without looking like curly sueHair texture needed: Any TextureHair length needed: ShortRecommendations: Make sure you tel…

This short style is a great way to break up the normal bob haircut look. This wavy curl is a great way to add body and fullness without looking like curly sue

Hair texture needed: Any Texture

Hair length needed: Short

Recommendations: Make sure you tell your stylist that you want wavy curls so that they don't make the curls to tight and short. A headband style tiara can dress up this style greatly.

 
This is a great way to get a very loose, not pulled tight, look in the front, but still have formality by bringing the hair to one side. The best part of the photo is the groom who was accidentally caught with a big "omg she is beautiful" smile.Hair…

This is a great way to get a very loose, not pulled tight, look in the front, but still have formality by bringing the hair to one side. The best part of the photo is the groom who was accidentally caught with a big "omg she is beautiful" smile.

Hair texture needed: Thick

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

Recommendations: consider the length of your hair when curled. If you need more length pick up some clip-ins to have larger curls flowing over your shoulder.

 
A long Messy braid is very modern and more of a red carpet style. Hair texture needed: ThickHair length needed:  LongRecommendations: Clip-ins for length!

A long Messy braid is very modern and more of a red carpet style. 

Hair texture needed: Thick

Hair length needed:  Long

Recommendations: Clip-ins for length!

 
This is a classic elegant look great for adding accessories to. This bride's hair is actually a long A-line. The back of her hair only reaches just above her shoulders. Hair texture needed: Medium to thickHair length needed: All TypesRecommenda…

This is a classic elegant look great for adding accessories to. This bride's hair is actually a long A-line. The back of her hair only reaches just above her shoulders. 

Hair texture needed: Medium to thick

Hair length needed: All Types

Recommendations: Having the curled bun low at the nape gives the opportunity for shorter hair to look longer and thicker.

This hairstyle is unique and not for the tradtitional bride. It looks great if you have lighter hair or dark hair with highlights.Hair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed: Medium to Long

This hairstyle is unique and not for the tradtitional bride. It looks great if you have lighter hair or dark hair with highlights.

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

 
This is an extremely textured updo that is great for any bride who want an intricate style.Hair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed: Medium-short to Medium 

This is an extremely textured updo that is great for any bride who want an intricate style.

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed: Medium-short to Medium 

 
Another way to add a messy braid to an updo insted of a down styleHair texture needed: All typesHair length needed: Medium to LongRecommendations: Get some face framing cut if you don't have layers so that the tendrals handing down are not too long.

Another way to add a messy braid to an updo insted of a down style

Hair texture needed: All types

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

Recommendations: Get some face framing cut if you don't have layers so that the tendrals handing down are not too long.

 
This style combines a loose look at the front, a smooth look to the bun and a braid for an accent.,Hair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed: Medium

This style combines a loose look at the front, a smooth look to the bun and a braid for an accent.,

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed: Medium

 
This style is similar to the one above, but the look is messier in the front and in the curled bun.Hair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed: Medium-short to LongRecommendations: Have your stylist cut face framing or long bangs to be ab…

This style is similar to the one above, but the look is messier in the front and in the curled bun.

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed: Medium-short to Long

Recommendations: Have your stylist cut face framing or long bangs to be able to have those loose tendrils down in the front.

The loose braid from the part around to a bun of curls to the side adds a lot of texture to a side updo that would usually be more plain and smooth.Hair texture needed: All typesHair length needed: Medium to Long

The loose braid from the part around to a bun of curls to the side adds a lot of texture to a side updo that would usually be more plain and smooth.

Hair texture needed: All types

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

 
A Cascading do can give you the elegance and formality of an updo while still showing off length and providing some back coverage.Hair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed: Medium to Long

A Cascading do can give you the elegance and formality of an updo while still showing off length and providing some back coverage.

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

 
This updo is a way to add a cascading victorian twist to your style. Hair texture needed: Medium to ThickHair length needed: Medium to LongRecommendations: Dangly earings finish this look perfectly!

This updo is a way to add a cascading victorian twist to your style. 

Hair texture needed: Medium to Thick

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

Recommendations: Dangly earings finish this look perfectly!

 
This is a great way to add formality to a very short hairstyle. The headband style tiara helps separate the straighter look of the front from the curled look of the backHair texture needed: Any TextureHair length needed: Very shortRecommendations: T…

This is a great way to add formality to a very short hairstyle. The headband style tiara helps separate the straighter look of the front from the curled look of the back

Hair texture needed: Any Texture

Hair length needed: Very short

Recommendations: The back of your haircut will need to have a lot of layering for this look. A bob or smooth A-line cut will not work.

 
This style is great for a woodsy kind of wedding. Its messy  bun and hanging tendrils give a soft look to a bride. Great for thin hair.Hair texture needed: Thin to MediumHair length needed: Medium to Long

This style is great for a woodsy kind of wedding. Its messy  bun and hanging tendrils give a soft look to a bride. Great for thin hair.

Hair texture needed: Thin to Medium

Hair length needed: Medium to Long

 
This Extremely intricate half-up look is great for adding flower or jeweled accessories .Hair texture needed: ThickHair length needed:  Long

This Extremely intricate half-up look is great for adding flower or jeweled accessories .

Hair texture needed: Thick

Hair length needed:  Long

 
This is a great half up style that is formal, but leaves some hair around the face. Hair texture needed: All typesHair length needed:  Medium to LongRecommendations: If you want this style make sure to ask you regular hairstylist to c…

This is a great half up style that is formal, but leaves some hair around the face. 

Hair texture needed: All types

Hair length needed:  Medium to Long

Recommendations: If you want this style make sure to ask you regular hairstylist to cut some face framing into your haircut so that this look can be achieved.